Dear Juicy,

I need your help badly!!!  My name is Jane Doe and I am a 23 year-old Paralegal. My best friend and I work together at a really large firm in our hometown. I almost lost my balance when she revealed to me that she is pregnant by our boss. I know this doesn’t sound gravely alarming but it’s really complicated because we’re both really good friends with our boss’s wife who also happens to work for the same firm. Our bosses wife is totally in the dark and has no idea that she’s about to throw a baby shower for her husbands mistress & her soon to be stepchild. She made me promise not to tell a soul -I wish she hadn’t told me.

This whole thing gets even more complex because my boss’s wife and I have become really great friends over the past year or so, going shopping and attending social functions together. She has offered to mentor me, she’s really a very nice lady and I like her a lot, but lately I have been trying to keep my distance, avoiding her at all cost. I feel really, really guilty about the affair, partly because my best friend is knocked up by him, but mostly because I too have been sleeping with him for the past year. I know it’s not right and I’m confused about what to do.

I had no idea until recently that the father of my best friends baby was our boss. When she revealed it to me I was already deep into him myself, doing all the things his wife stopped doing ,and even those things that she never did, I have been fulfilling all of his sexual fantasies.  She said he told her that he was in love with her and that it was only a matter of time before he’d  be leaving his wife, he just needed some time to work out the monetary issues. He made her swear to keep it as “their little secret,” which is exactly the same bullshit lie he told me, verbatim. I feel like such a fool for believing that he was really in love with me and would soon make me his wife, I can’t believe that I fell for such a sleaze ball.

My best friend is really ecstatic about the baby  – believing that they are going to live happily ever after. She told me that she doesn’t want to hurt his wife but it’s not her problem. I don’t want to hurt either one of them but I feel like our boss needs to be exposed for the cheating  liar  that he is. I feel like such a fool. Please tell me, should I just get out of this quad and keep it to myself, or should I pull the wool off of this wolf?

Signed,

Menage Plus One

Dear Menage Plus One,

I see that you are confused, however, I don’t know why. You are certainly old enough to know right from wrong – and sleeping with a man you know is married screams “wrong” no matter what he’s telling you.  It’s unfortunate for your best friend that she is pregnant because she will most likely  be a single mother. It is not likely that this man will leave his wife for either of you and if he does it’s inevitable that he won’t do the same to one of you.  The only people I have sympathy for is the wife and the unborn child, both of whom are totally innocent victims of infidelity and deceit. I would recommend that  you tell your best friend, then the two of you can tell his wife the entire truth and look for another job while you’re at it. The only way that we as women can stop men from cheating is if we don’t assist them! If you continue to aid him in perpetuating lies he will surely continue.

A man who doesn’t have the integrity to stay faithful to his wife  and honor his vows is not a real man. Secondly, If he does not get  divorced prior to seeking another relationship he is a coward only looking for a good time. I understand that you are young but you’d better learn this lesson quick,  here’s a rule to live by: If a man is married or involved with someone else in any capacity, that means he is UNAVAILABLE!!! Do yourself a huge favor and find someone who is, otherwise you will never be happy. Take this as a lesson learned and not to be repeated,  good luck.

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-Juicy

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