If you are reading this, then you are at the least curious to know if it’s possible that just maybe the man you love is cheating on you.  In this article I will discuss the tell-tale signs of a man who is cheating.  The funny thing about wanting to know is that most women who suspect their man of infidelity are usually right – I have found that a woman’s intuition is usually dead on.  Every time I was accused of cheating in my relationships they were correct.

All a man has to do is just plant a seed of doubt in her mind to get her going.  We make her feel like it’s her – that she is being paranoid for no reason. We say things like “I love you, I would never do that.” “How can you think such a thing?” Or, we get very defensive and mad, this technique is to show you how upset we are that you would even think that low of us!  Most times women just put it away until the next incident, and believe me there will be a next – it’s just a matter of time.

This is the way a man thinks unless you catch us in the “down stroke” it never happened, it wasn’t me! Every man who cheats knows this code, it’s “the code of denial” and it simply goes like this. “I didn’t do it” “It was not me.” You see, we don’t care how much you “think” you may know, unless you have it on video… It was not me, and even if you have it on video… “That’s not me ,clearly you can tell that it’s not my back!”  We know that you don’t want it to be true, that you don’t want your man to be a cheating asshole that can’t be trusted. So this gives us an advantage because you will take any bullshit excuse we dish out, and some of it is absolute bullshit! Example: “I was too drunk to drive home so I crashed a Tom’s house.” Come on ladies, please stop and think! If I was able to get my ass to Tom’s house… hello!!  This excuse is used when we need to stay out all night because what ever we are chasing needs dedicated time to close.  This is what happens… We don’t get out of the house until 8pm; we take her out to dinner that takes what 2-3 hours, now it’s 11pm.  Then we have to take her to the club, by the time that’s done it’s what? 3am.  We still have not “hit it yet”, and she is primed, I mean ready to go – we can go home now! We clearly have to make a decision  & fast! So we check our phone to see if the wife has called, now if she has called -how many times is the next question. If she has been calling non-stop for the past 3 hours this is a problem. This is when we do a complete shut off because we are setting you up for another lame ass excuse.  “My battery died.” Mission complete, we know that you will be upset for a while, but we also know that you don’t have enough evidence to convict! So you will get over it, after all, you wouldn’t want me to drive all the way home drunk would you? That would be too dangerous. The next morning, we show up saying “I missed your calls because… “it was so loud I didn’t hear the phone then my battery died.”  Poor us.

Okay ladies, here are some of the major signs:

1. We start to work more hours… This one always works because “we are working more hours for you so you can have all those nice things.”  What we are really doing is spending time with someone else. This one is very easy to bust ladies, the on only thing you have to do is check his pay against the amount of new hours he’s working and if the numbers don’t add up you got him.

2. Your sex life takes a dive and he’s just not that into you anymore. Why does this happen?  Because we have a new toy that’s exciting and shiny – it’s like having a new car right off the lot, and the old one just isn’t that interesting anymore, but we know we have to go out and start it every once and awhile.

3.  A change in his physical appearance – This happens because we want to look good for our new toy. We get new clothes and really start to pay more attention to our appearance.  If it’s an older gentleman it’s not uncommon for him to start to dress younger or more hip especially if he is with a younger woman. She is making him feel young!!

4.  We become defensive when questioned especially about our “whereabouts.” We do not like this at all because we find this line of questioning very uncomfortable. You are forcing us to lie.  This is when we will normally deploy a reversal technique, and tell you that you are being “insecure, and possessive.” Then we look you dead in the eyes and ask with our most concerned and sincere face “Don’t you trust me?” This will normally stop this uncomfortable line of question for a little while.

5.  The dreaded and highly guarded cell phone.  What can I say this is a very sensitive subject for mostly all cheaters,  it’s both a blessing and a curse a blessing because it give us real time access to our new toy, a sexy text here and there – you know, to keep things spicy. It allows us to make booty call arrangements right from our blackberries, maybe they should call them “bootyberries” we can manage our “other women” right from our palms. Modern technology you got to love it! Now, the Curse is that it’s so much work to guard it! The bootyberry is like a ticking time bomb that could explode in your face killing you at anytime!  You can not leave it sitting around, this thing must be in your possession at all times – we even take it to the bath room! Here is a trick ladies, pretend that you have left your phone somewhere, and you need to use his phone to make an urgent call.  When he gives it to you take it and leave the room to make this call, and just watch his expression, it will tell you all you need to know! He’s trying to play it cool, but he’s thinking “OMG, she has my bootyberry and she leaving with it – NOOOOOOOOO!!!”

6.  Changes in his spending habits – Of course there is going to be a change in our spending habits; we have a new girlfriend we have to wine and dine. Do you think cheating is free!! When it comes to this you have two types, the “smart spender” who only uses cash to take his toy around.  This guy will never use a ATM or credit card, he fears the paper trail will came back to haunt him.  You can nail this guy too by simply checking his ATM withdrawals. The other is the “dummy spender,” this guy not only uses his credit cards, but his joint ATM card as well! Like Whitney said “if you  & the fellas went out to eat, how come only two of you had dinner – on your credit card receipt?”  Yeah I know that’s not the way it went but you get the point right?

Well, I think that’s enough sharing for now. I think writing this article will get my “man card” taken. If this is what entails being a man, I want know part of it. Don’t get me wrong, I stand guilty of all these things and much more, but I no longer do these things.  It’s easy to cheat, anyone can do that, but it takes a real man to stick to his commitments, and be faithful.  Just want you ladies to stop allowing men to pull the wool over your eyes – follow your gut instinct, you have that intuition thing for a reason.

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-Josh

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