Let me get straight to the point ladies,  I can’t tell you how many times I have witnessed woman making the mistake of being too desperate when they meet a guy.  Look, we men do not like desperate, we pity it and we see it as the perfect opportunity to take advantage of you. You will become the” booty call girl”, the one we fuck when there is no one else is available.  I know it sounds harsh right? But that’s the simple truth.

Please let me explain what goes on in our minds when we sense desperation. When you come across as a DW, (desperate woman) you have just lowered your overall value. When this occurs it has the opposite effect on a mans value; meaning we know you value us more than we value you. When we know we are worth more than you, you become “beneath us,” and we feel that we can do better than you.  We start to feel that we would be cheating ourselves by being with you.  After all, we must be worth a lot more since you want this so much, right? Yeah, we “know” we can do better than you.  You have broken a major law!  You know the one of supply and demand.  When you meet a guy,  let’s say you come across a little over enthused, you may find yourself giving too much too soon; Big Big mistake.  By supplying too much too soon, this decreases the demand for you. (If you hold back the supply, you’ll increase the demand.) Breaking this simple rule will put you into the booty call section, you become something to do. Once you’re there, it really becomes an up hill battle to get out. The situation just deteriorates and becomes worse because the more you try, the more desperate you seem.  As a matter of fact, it’s almost impossible to go from the booty call girl to the girl friend and almost unheard of to become the wife. After all, who wants to marry the desperate girl?

Now that we have discussed that, let me tell you what men want. We want to feel like we got lucky. We want the woman who doesn’t want our stupid ass.  The one with the shitty, bitchy attitude. The one who treats us “just” good enough to keeps us, but “just” mean enough to keep us chasing her. I know this shit sounds stupid but ladies remember who you are dealing with here.

Have you every known a really great guy and he’s dating a total bitch? You say to yourself, “what the fuck is he with her for? She treats him like shit.  The reason is really simple; she makes him feel lucky to have her. Men like to feel like they got a great deal that they are not supposed to have, and Ms. Shitty attitude does that. How does she do that? By not coming across as a DW! She makes us chase her, so we see her as being unattainable. When we get her we want to “keep her” at all cost because everyone knows that things you have to work hard for you tend to value more. Therefore, she becomes the keeper, the prime candidate for wife status. We’ll bend over backwards for these women, we become there bitches, willing to do whatever is necessary to keep them happy; anything to “stay” the lucky guy.

All guys know the two major facts about DW’s: 1. That we can always hit it.   2.  They will put up with a whole lot of shit with minimal complaints. And if they do complain a lot, who cares, they’re not going anywhere, after all they’re the lucky ones right?  So ladies when you meet a guy that you like let him come to you and believe me if he likes you he will and if he does not come to you he was not interested in the first place., at least not to the level were he would want to make the effort. Ladies ask your self this “Do I want to be with someone who does not feel that I am worth the effort?” Remember you have the power to set how much you are worth, do not let a man set your value.

Ladies if you are tired of doing the same things and getting the same results I recommend you read this great little ebook I recently came across it’s by a well known relationship expert and although I did not agree with everything he had to say I did agree with most things he had to say. The book is called How to be the woman men adore…and never want to leave. By Bob Grant

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